Post 39 – Coerced Exposure: When Porn Became Control
It began as subtle encouragement. “Other men want you,” he said. “It’s flattering.” Slowly, he convinced me to share intimate images — images I never wanted to share — as if it was a game, a way to prove my desirability.
But beneath the surface, it was manipulation. Using my need for validation against me. Pressuring me to expose myself more and more, breaking down boundaries under the guise of excitement.
What started as “fun” became a tool for control — a weapon to keep me tethered, fearful, and ashamed.
Tactics Breakdown – Manipulation Behind the Lens
- Grooming for Exposure: Using flattery and validation to lower defenses
- Boundary Erosion: Gradually pushing for more explicit sharing beyond comfort levels
- Psychological Control: Framing coercion as mutual fun or excitement
- Fear and Shame: Creating a sense of dependency and secrecy
- Digital Exploitation: Using intimate content as leverage and control
You Are More Than What They Show
Your worth isn’t defined by the images they make you share. You are a whole person with boundaries, dignity, and the right to say no.
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